I nearly remember when August 6th was a day of celebration rather than a day of remembrance. It is hard to believe it has been the latter for five years. Britney would be celebrating her 15th birthday today. Sometimes, I try to think about what she would be interested and how much she would have grown and matured in the five year since she was taken from us—but mostly, I remember her just how she was.Brit and I had a special bond, one that was not easily described. I cut her umbilical cord, I helped her learn how to ride a two-wheeler and I held her hand as she left this world. Sandwiched in between, Brit taught me about the importance of life. Brit loved like she had never been hurt, danced like no one was watching, and tried until she got it right. Her insight and perspective was spot-on. I like to think that the way Brit led her life was a reminder that, that which we value in childhood is that which we should value throughout our life.
Today, on what would have been Brit’s 15th birthday, instead of having a huge celebration- I will gather with my family after work to remember Brit, privately. But as Brit loved to be the center of attention and to know that people were talking about her-I will share this post in her memory. If you remember Brit, I encourage you to talk about her today. One of the hardest things about losing Brit is the fear that others will forget her so please don’t let my fear become a reality—talk about her, keep Brit’s memory alive.
In loving memory of Britney Nicole Wielgus-you will forever be my favorite. Rest in peace, my love.
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